10 Perfect Reasons to Book a Retreat Before the Holidays Hit

Life’s been a lot lately, hasn’t it? Work, parenting, caregiving, doom-scrolling, and trying to remember where you left your coffee (check the microwave). Most of us are stretched thinner than the cheap wine at a company party. So let’s be clear: treating yourself isn’t indulgent, it’s survival. It’s not selfish, it’s self-preservation. And honestly, it’s time to stop whacking yourself with the martyr stick and put it down, gently please, before someone gets hurt. (Pssst, that’s you) If you’ve been looking for reasons to book a retreat, I’ve got 10 solid (and slightly ridiculous) ones right here.

Your Permission Slip to Book the Trip

1. You Can’t Spend Your Life in a Group Chat

You are the heartbeat of that chat. Who else is going to misquote a meme, derail the plans with a questionable emoji, or accidentally text the Airbnb host instead of the group? Chaos is part of the charm. And it’s no fun without you.

Need more proof? Read about why we all need that one quirky friend: The Atlantic – The Case for the Weird Friend

2. Because Women Need Recess Too

We plan enrichment for our kids: field trips, sleepovers, social time. But somewhere along the way, we forgot that we need it too. Grown-up recess looks like lakeside wine, walks in the woods, and laughing until you cry in a hot tub.

See also: Time – The Secret to Happiness? Your Friends.

3. Because Rest Isn’t Lazy—It’s Smart

Repeat after me: I don’t need to earn rest. The hustle cult lied. Rest boosts creativity, immune function, and emotional resilience. It’s not just allowed. It’s essential.

Science says: Harvard Business Review – The Science of Taking Breaks

4. Because Your Brain Needs New Scenery

You’ve memorized the view from your kitchen window. New places activate different parts of your brain and spark joy (yes, actual joy, not just Marie Kondo joy).

Related read: National Geographic – Why Travel is Good for Your Mental Health

5. Because Belly Laughs Are Cheaper Than Therapy

There is nothing—and I mean NOTHING—like the unfiltered laughter that happens on a girls’ trip. When someone snorts wine through their nose over an inside joke, you’re doing life right.

Evidence: Mayo Clinic – Stress relief from laughter? It’s no joke

6. Because You’re Allowed to Do Something Just for You

Not everything you do needs to serve your family, your job, or your to-do list. This one’s just for you. Because you want it. Because it makes you happy. That’s enough.

Related inspiration: Psychology Today – The Importance of Me Time

7. Because You Always Say “Next Time”

Every group has a “maybe next time” person. The one who almost comes. The one who gets the stories secondhand. Eventually, people stop asking. Don’t let that be you.

Hard truth: NPR Life Kit – How to Strengthen Your Friendships

8. Because Nature Doesn’t Judge

Wear stretchy pants for three days straight. Go makeup-free. Talk to a tree. Nature doesn’t care (and neither do the women you’re with). And it’s incredibly healing.

More on that: Cleveland Clinic – The Mental Health Benefits of Nature

9. Because You’ll Come Home Better

Refreshed, recharged, and far more patient with your family. Time away gives perspective and fills your cup, so you can stop pouring from an empty one.

Helpful read: Forbes – Why Women Need Solo and Social Time to Thrive

10. Because You Deserve It

Not in the cheesy bubble bath way. In the real, you’ve-been-carrying-too-much-for-too-long way. You don’t need a reason beyond that.

Need validation? Brené Brown – The Power of Vulnerability TED Talk

Bonus: Because You Want To—and That’s Enough

You don’t need to explain it. You don’t need permission. You want to go. That’s it. And that’s valid. Always has been.